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Sexual frustration

This is the norm. Our horny men need sex. For someone who writes a lot and reads more, I have always run through profiles to fall for a person's writing. My profile in PR or Grindr have been highly neglectable. Not many read. Pictures speak a thousand words, and even if someone does end up reading all of this, I still don;t think it means I am going to be interested only for that criteria. Being someone who believes in personality over looks, someone with an amicable personality is hard to find. Why would we look out for personality anyway? are we gonna live with them? no!. Why so? Cose we just need sex. We just need a hot body with a bad attitude who would treat each other either as god or as toad. How many times have we went on a date with a hot body but uptight/ loose personalities (?!)

There are a few I have encountered, mostly they are taken though, have worked on their personality and have become someone everyone has wanted. May be I am choosy and have lousy profiles for that reason, I constantly put my sexual frustration as a way to find the guy I would be impressed and interested with. And for that I need to impress him, Looks may or may not matter to him, but I wish that I gain a personality that attracts him.

But how many of those with good personality look for another of the same?! cose most guys just come to get laid to social network, and with the amount of response they get for their bulging biceps and sixpacks. The last thing that they would care about is their "Personality". We sell our bodies in this market, we hardly look beyond that. Thanks to our horniness.


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