White lies are pretty normal in the Gay world, and from name to profession, we change the information to keep ourselves discreet. There are a few whom you find to be decent enough to be okay with giving out the real info. Those whom you trust. I feel that as long as the intention is to protect ourselves, there is nothing wrong with these white lies.
But then what was disturbing to me, was when people lie about their preferences, their social status and even the fact if they are committed or in an open relationship. whether they are just looking to time pass, or be in a serious relationship.
I usually draw the line at that point when I go for dates, where false hopes don't linger. As that would affect the other person. Do nothing to another that you wouldn't want to be done to you. How would you feel if your boy friend has another affair, while you are exclusive? how would you feel when the guy whom you think you are dating is passing time with you. How would you feel if the guy who posed to be rich, did so for ulterior gains?
Some things that I saw recently happening with people really took a toll. I didn't wish that they would stoop so low. Yet, I had to witness such people who have no botheration for the acts that they have done.
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