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The Golden Rules - 2

"No dates = No sex"

Dating is an initial bond, an emotional foreplay. Take men on dates, They deserve it as much as any girl. In what way are men less that you would jump in bed and exploit their body. Demand a date!
If you are someone who gets several dates, have a three dates rule, where you wouldn't sleep with a guy until he takes you on three dates, Your self worth will increase only when the other respects your body and gets permission by taking you out. Its your body, you have all the right to ask for attention and romance. This way sexual predators would actually have to work for getting laid and wouldn't treat other men as a piece of meat. Men will eventually be proud to take a guy on dates, and men in the future would feel that they are worth such etiquette.

For me, I feel complete when I go on a date. I feel that I am seen for my personality and presence more than my looks. I wouldn't say that I enjoy when someone looks at me sexually it is anything wrong, but you feel acknowledged as a person. When I go for a date, I try to be myself, whether the other persons likes me or not, I would rather show who I am than to pretend to be someone I am not. Going on platonic dates is really not that easy, but those who agree to it, are the best kind of men.

While women are treated as a piece of meat in the straight world, let us show them what real men do. Connect emotionally and then give permission to share each other's bodies.


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